1958-2025
Brenda Kay Sheeder, a loving mother, devoted wife and cherished friend, passed away in Guthrie Center on Dec. 17, 2025, at the age of 67.
Brenda’s early years in Nebraska were filled with the warmth of a close-knit family and the joys of discovery and learning. After graduating from high school, she pursued her interest in numbers and details by majoring in accounting in college, a field in which she excelled due to her meticulous and organized nature.
Brenda’s love for her family was evident in every aspect of her life. She is survived by her adoring children, Richard Sheeder and Kassandra Sheeder, both of Guthrie Center; her loving mother, Laverne Barnard of Beatrice, Nebraska; and her caring brother and sister-in-law, Duane (Teri) Barnard of Palisade, Nebraska, and Janell (Darrell) Parde of Loomis, Nebraska. Brenda was preceded in death by her father, Everett Barnard; and her beloved husband, Kerry Sheeder.
Brenda’s love story with Kerry began in Beatrice, Nebraska, where they were introduced by her mother. Their love blossomed quickly, and they were married on May 26, 1990, in Pickrell, Nebraska. Together, they embarked on a life full of adventure, following Kerry’s pipeline work across the United States. Brenda’s adaptability and supportive nature were the glue that held their family together during these travels.
A woman of many interests, Brenda found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She was an avid sewer and scrapbooker, capturing memories and creating beautiful keepsakes for her family and friends. Her passion for the outdoors was shared with Kerry, as they often went on pickup rides or side-by-side rides, exploring the beauty of the countryside.
Those who knew Brenda will remember her as a loving, thoughtful and passionate soul. Her ability to listen and her readiness to offer a helping hand made her a beacon of light in her community.